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For Better Or Worse: Cleave and Leave

Feb 15, 2026    Pastor Jarad Houser

Did you know the word "cleave" is one of the most interesting words in the Bible? It means to bond or intertwine—like the ligaments and tendons in a joint. But a cleaver? That’s designed to separate and dissect.

We’re breaking down the three "cleavers" that often sneak in and try to separate what God joined together:


The "Me" Cleaver: Putting your own hobbies, work, or friends before your spouse.


The "Kids" Cleaver: Making the kids the center of the universe while your marriage takes a back seat.



The "Parents" Cleaver: Letting in-laws (or your own parents) undermine the bond with your spouse.


💡 Why You Should Watch

Whether you’re in a season of "Crown Molding stress" (if you know, you know!) or you're just looking to build a God-honoring marriage, this message is for you.


Highlights include:

Why "Second Place" is actually the best place to be in a marriage.


How to set healthy boundaries (yes, even if your 14-year-old is still trying to sleep in your bed).


The real reason why your spouse might remind you of your father-in-law.